09 September, 2012
当男人不爱的时候
當男人不愛女人，
他回复的時間，會愈來愈長，通電話的時間，則愈來愈短。
不管自己做錯還是做對，都不會道歉。
他最常說的話不是「我愛你」，而是沉默。
她向他訴苦，他總是說:「這是你的事，要自己解決。」
他連打她罵她的氣力也不想花。
他未必立即離開她，直至他的新目標出現。
常对你发脾气
心里话不会再对你说
对你的关心不见了
08 September, 2012
其实我多么依恋……
有时候，我们故意装着很冷漠，只是不想让对方知道我们依恋着他。
电话铃声响起，我们明知道是他打来，也故意在心里数十下才拿起电话筒。我不要他知道我一直坐在电话机旁边等候。拿起电话筒，我们只是装着很平淡的说：
“你找我有事吗？”
其实，我多么依恋你的声音。
见不到你的时候，我整天想着你，好想扑在你怀里。见到面的时候，我只是把两只手放在身后，规规矩矩的站在你面前。你一定觉得我是个没什么感情的人。
其实，我多么依恋你。
我好想听你说话，好想知道更多关于你的事
当你还没说再见的时候，我却抢先跟你说：
“再见。”
下一次，当你觉得我很冷漠的时候，你会否明白那是因为我在乎？
电话铃声响起，我们明知道是他打来，也故意在心里数十下才拿起电话筒。我不要他知道我一直坐在电话机旁边等候。拿起电话筒，我们只是装着很平淡的说：
“你找我有事吗？”
其实，我多么依恋你的声音。
见不到你的时候，我整天想着你，好想扑在你怀里。见到面的时候，我只是把两只手放在身后，规规矩矩的站在你面前。你一定觉得我是个没什么感情的人。
其实，我多么依恋你。
我好想听你说话，好想知道更多关于你的事
当你还没说再见的时候，我却抢先跟你说：
“再见。”
下一次，当你觉得我很冷漠的时候，你会否明白那是因为我在乎？
06 September, 2012
I want to learn
People always have the time of depression, because of a person or one thing, which makes people get a long time to remember. Depressed mood, not only affect the life, but also affect your work. When you are being plagued by some issues, you can try to put the following method to do, maybe it will give you some help.
First, shift your attention.
When people's emotions at a low mood, affecting their interest to do things. They always think about the sad things. Therefore, in order to get rid of that feeing, first of all, you should try your best to ignore those issues, to divert attention. Sometimes, people cannot change something that has already become truth. The thing we only can do to adapt the world and face reality. There's a saying goes that survival of the fittest in natural selection.
Don't always satisfied with the real life; don't always go to comparisons with others. Your life should have your wonderful idea. Sometimes life is not happy with a lot of money.
Second, learn to tolerance.
Tolerance is a virtue, is the salvation of people make mistakes, and also is sublimation for their spiritual. Don't always consider someone how to offend you, causing how much damage or loss. Think of whether is worth to you so angry. He is deliberate or unintentional? Give the other party a chance, is also give ourselves a chance. For some people, to forgive, this is far more effective than punishment. Don't be too harsh on people, everyone have the time to make mistakes.
Three, content is better than riches.
Life is full of joys and sorrows, which we cannot avoid. Pain can make people decadent, and also inspire people to fight. It temple people's will, so that people will not easily be down.
Pursuit of the perfect life is everyone's dream. However, does this perfection really exist? Do you think it is worth to spend all the time to pursuit of that prefect moment?
Everyone has weaknesses, everything has its drawbacks. We should first to see the bright side, don't stare in the eyes of the ugly aspects, thus you never find happiness and never have a good mood.
First, shift your attention.
When people's emotions at a low mood, affecting their interest to do things. They always think about the sad things. Therefore, in order to get rid of that feeing, first of all, you should try your best to ignore those issues, to divert attention. Sometimes, people cannot change something that has already become truth. The thing we only can do to adapt the world and face reality. There's a saying goes that survival of the fittest in natural selection.
Don't always satisfied with the real life; don't always go to comparisons with others. Your life should have your wonderful idea. Sometimes life is not happy with a lot of money.
Second, learn to tolerance.
Tolerance is a virtue, is the salvation of people make mistakes, and also is sublimation for their spiritual. Don't always consider someone how to offend you, causing how much damage or loss. Think of whether is worth to you so angry. He is deliberate or unintentional? Give the other party a chance, is also give ourselves a chance. For some people, to forgive, this is far more effective than punishment. Don't be too harsh on people, everyone have the time to make mistakes.
Three, content is better than riches.
Life is full of joys and sorrows, which we cannot avoid. Pain can make people decadent, and also inspire people to fight. It temple people's will, so that people will not easily be down.
Pursuit of the perfect life is everyone's dream. However, does this perfection really exist? Do you think it is worth to spend all the time to pursuit of that prefect moment?
Everyone has weaknesses, everything has its drawbacks. We should first to see the bright side, don't stare in the eyes of the ugly aspects, thus you never find happiness and never have a good mood.