06 September, 2012

I want to learn

People always have the time of depression, because of a person or one thing, which makes people get a long time to remember. Depressed mood, not only affect the life, but also affect your work. When you are being plagued by some issues, you can try to put the following method to do, maybe it will give you some help.

First, shift your attention.
When people's emotions at a low mood, affecting their interest to do things. They always think about the sad things. Therefore, in order to get rid of that feeing, first of all, you should try your best to ignore those issues, to divert attention. Sometimes, people cannot change something that has already become truth. The thing we only can do to adapt the world and face reality. There's a saying goes that survival of the fittest in natural selection.
Don't always satisfied with the real life; don't always go to comparisons with others. Your life should have your wonderful idea. Sometimes life is not happy with a lot of money.

Second, learn to tolerance.
Tolerance is a virtue, is the salvation of people make mistakes, and also is sublimation for their spiritual. Don't always consider someone how to offend you, causing how much damage or loss. Think of whether is worth to you so angry. He is deliberate or unintentional? Give the other party a chance, is also give ourselves a chance. For some people, to forgive, this is far more effective than punishment. Don't be too harsh on people, everyone have the time to make mistakes.

Three, content is better than riches.
Life is full of joys and sorrows, which we cannot avoid. Pain can make people decadent, and also inspire people to fight. It temple people's will, so that people will not easily be down.
Pursuit of the perfect life is everyone's dream. However, does this perfection really exist? Do you think it is worth to spend all the time to pursuit of that prefect moment?
Everyone has weaknesses, everything has its drawbacks. We should first to see the bright side, don't stare in the eyes of the ugly aspects, thus you never find happiness and never have a good mood.

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